Crash & Flare Support

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Essential / Helpful / Can Wait

Deciding in advance what must happen, what helps, and what waits without exception.

A keep-close version. Read it here, or screenshot this page to have it on your phone — print and PDF copies will appear once final files are attached.

The three-column sort for a crash day — done in advance on a better day, consulted in fog. Everything lands in a column, and the 'can wait' column carries the day's weight.

Essential — must happen

  • Water, within reach
  • Medication, on time
  • Warmth and lying down
  • Someone knows the situation

Helpful — if the day allows

  • Easy food within reach
  • Company that asks nothing
  • Someone carrying the messages
  • The room lowered — dark, quiet

Can wait — everything else

MESSAGES
PLANS
OBLIGATIONS
STANDARDS
THE TIDY HOUSE
THE REVIEW OF WHAT CAUSED THIS

Moving things to 'can wait' deliberately is what stops them costing anything. The review of causes, especially, is optional and belongs later — if at all.