Crash & Flare Support

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Support Message Templates

Short messages to send — or give to someone to send for you: the one-contact update, the request for help, the reschedule.

A keep-close version. Read it here, or screenshot this page to have it on your phone — print and PDF copies will appear once final files are attached.

Written on a better day, sent as-is, with the blanks optional. A pre-written message asking for help is not weaker than a fresh one — it's the same message, prepared earlier.

The one-contact update

Pick the update

  • “I'm in a bad flare. I'm okay — I just can't reply for a while. Can you let people know?”
  • “Crashed. Safe, but flat for a few days. Please handle anything that needs handling; I'll message when I'm back.”
  • “Rough week. I'm okay and I'll be quiet — texts fine, no replies expected.”

The help request

Pick the request

  • “Can you bring milk and something easy to eat and leave it at the door? I can't talk today.”
  • “I need help and I'm not up to explaining — the note by the kettle says what helps.”
  • “Could you ring them for me and reschedule? The details are in my notes app.”

The reschedule

Pick the reschedule

  • “I'm significantly unwell and can't attend. Can we reschedule, or is there a phone option?”
  • “I need to change my appointment — I'm in a bad flare. Please note I may need a call rather than coming in.”

Words spent once, carried by one person, reach everyone. Three words to one person is enough on a day like this.