Support, Asking for Help & Being Understood

Interactive Tool

Very-Low-Capacity Help Card

For the days when even choosing is too much: point to the need, point to the person, point to 'today, yes please' — the whole ask in one gesture. Limited understanding is never assumed; limited capacity is.

What this is for: An ask that works when speech, composing and deciding are all beyond today.

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The need

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The person

Written in advance — or point to their name on the card.

You can leave this blank.

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The answer to 'when?'

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What helpers should know about this card

You can leave this blank.

What you've put together

Your choices stay on this page — nothing is saved or sent.

The whole ask, in one gesture: need, person, timing — with the standing note that keeps dignity and consent intact.

Nothing chosen yet — that's fine. Use only what helps today.

Pointing is asking. Whatever you've chosen here is a complete request — and a supporter using your standing defaults is still you shaping your support, just earlier and in fewer words.

Open the one-page view of this tool

A clean, keep-close version — read it here, or screenshot the page to have it on your phone.