Communication

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One-Question-at-a-Time Sheet

Helping supporters communicate in a way that costs the least to process.

A keep-close version. Read it here, or screenshot this page to have it on your phone — print and PDF copies will appear once final files are attached.

A short teaching sheet for supporters: how to ask questions when processing is difficult. It includes the examples, so it can be handed over as it is.

What helps

  • One question at a time
  • Short, simple sentences
  • Yes / no questions where possible
  • A pause between topics — the waiting is part of the question
  • Writing it down instead of asking out loud
  • Saying what's about to happen ('I'm going to open the curtains now')
  • Not reading a slow reply as a no

Instead of / try

The example pair, kept visible for whoever needs it.

Instead of (several at once)

e.g. “What do you want to eat, do you need medication, and should I open the curtains?”

Try (one, then wait)

e.g. “Would you like a drink?” … wait for the answer … “Would you like food?”

Several small questions asked together become one large demand. Spacing them out isn't going slowly — it's communicating at the size that works.

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