Interactive Tool
My Support Menu
Most failed help is unspecified help. This builds the concrete list — the things that actually help, grouped by kind, with an explicit 'please don't' section that's as useful as the yes-list.
What this is for: One visible list that turns 'anything you need' into something real a helper can choose from.
Practical help — things people can do
Emotional support — things people can be
Presence — company that asks nothing
Informational — things people can know
Please don't
The section helpers thank you for — it removes the guesswork.
You can leave this blank.
Where the menu lives
You can leave this blank.
What you've put together
Your choices stay on this page — nothing is saved or sent.
A complete support menu: practical, emotional, presence and informational helps — plus the don't-list that protects everyone from guessing.
Nothing chosen yet — that's fine. Use only what helps today.
The menu protects both directions: helpers get certainty instead of guesswork, and you get the shape of help held without asking fresh each time.
A clean, keep-close version — read it here, or screenshot the page to have it on your phone.