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Supporter Prompt Cards
Giving helpers the exact words that make their goodwill land lightly.
A keep-close version. Read it here, or screenshot this page to have it on your phone — print and PDF copies will appear once final files are attached.
For the people who want to help but don't know what to say: ready sentences that arrive as low-decision offers — the kind where the answer is yes, no, or silence, and never a project.
The sentences that work on you
Build: the low-decision offer template
The formula: what I'm doing anyway + when + a yes/no answer shape.
What I'm doing anyway
- “I'm cooking anyway this weekend —”
- “I'm passing yours tomorrow —”
- “I'm at the shops on Thursday —”
The concrete offer
- “does a portion in a tub, at the door, help?”
- “want me to add milk and bread to my shop?”
- “could I take the parcel back for you?”
The pressure-remover
- “No need to reply — if I don't hear, I'll take it as a no.”
- “Yes or no is plenty. Either is completely fine.”
- “You can say no and I'll ask again next week, no feelings involved.”
The version of me these fit
A note on your weather, so helpers can follow you between states.
Good week / bad week instructions
e.g. Good week: company welcome, short visits. Bad week: doorstep only, texts, no replies expected.
The people worth keeping are made, not found: made by telling them kindly what each state needs. These cards are how they get made.