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Two questions that do the resizing
Not every task needs breaking down — that would turn every day into a project. Most of the time, two questions applied to whichever task is currently stuck do the work:
- “What is the smallest useful version of this task?” — the version that still does the job it exists to do
- “What can be left unfinished without causing a real problem?” — which separates the optional steps from the necessary ones in one sweep
A shower whose purpose is cleanliness does not need to include hair-washing or a tidy bathroom. A laundry load whose purpose is clean clothes does not need to include folding. Most of what makes a task large is steps that were inherited from the routine, not required by the point of it.
The main ways of shrinking a task
- Splitting it into stages — and doing one stage now, another later, or never
- Doing only the necessary part of it
- Leaving the finishing steps — folding, filing, tidying — for a different day, or for nobody
- Removing unnecessary steps outright, rather than doing them faster
- A seated version, wherever the standing is the expensive part
- Preparing items in advance — the towel on the radiator, the documents gathered the night before
- Using shortcuts that cause no harm — ready-prepared food, direct debits, deliveries
- Asking for help with one stage, rather than with the whole task
- Stopping part-way, deliberately, without treating that as failure
Four worked examples
The same task, shown at its inherited size and in its smaller versions:
Showering
Instead of: Wash hair + shower + dry hair + get dressed + tidy bathroom
Smaller options might include:
- Body wash only — the parts that matter today
- Hair on a different day
- Sit for part of it, or all of it
- Clothes and towel prepared beforehand, within reach
- Leave the non-essential tidying — nobody will catalogue the bathroom
Cooking
Instead of: Choose recipe + prep + cook + serve + wash up
Smaller options might include:
- Ready-prepared ingredients — pre-chopped, pre-cooked, frozen
- One simple item, rather than a meal with parts
- A familiar meal on repeat — deciding is a step too, and repetition removes it
- Someone else does the washing up
- Prepared in stages — chopped earlier, cooked later
Admin
Instead of: Open letter + understand it + decide + respond + file it
Smaller options might include:
- Open it only — the whole envelope can be today's achievement
- Highlight what needs action, leave the rest unread until it matters
- Ask someone to help interpret what it is asking for
- Reply later — a dated note of the deadline replaces the constant remembering
- Keep it in one visible place, rather than filed into oblivion
Laundry
Instead of: Sort + wash + dry + fold + put away
Smaller options might include:
- Wash one load — the one that is actually needed
- Leave the folding; a basket of clean clothes is still clean clothes
- Baskets rather than drawers, where reaching is the difficult part
- Ask someone to carry it up or down — the carrying is often the biggest cost
- Put away only the essentials; the rest can live in the basket
Stopping is part of the design
The hardest part of a smaller task is rarely the doing — it is stopping mid-way, against years of training that unfinished work is failure. One workable rule: decide the stopping point before starting (“I will clear the counter, then sit”), so that stopping belongs to the plan rather than defeating it. The task ends where it was always going to end; only the announcement has moved earlier.
A smaller version of a task is not a lesser one. The kitchen with one clear surface, the letter opened and dated, the clean clothes living in a basket — those are real improvements, and they count fully.
At the severe end
At lower capacity the smallest useful version can be genuinely small — and still be the correct size for the day. Washing at the sink while seated. One item of clothing changed, rather than an outfit. A letter opened by someone else and read aloud in one line. Where even the smallest version is too much, the task can be handed over entirely: a carer or supporter doing the stage, the whole task, or the deciding, while the person it belongs to keeps the say over what matters — which clothes, which meal, what gets answered and what does not.
Making Everyday Tasks More Manageable
One everyday task, looked at closely, with a smaller version chosen on purpose. A supporter can complete this with you, or for you.
The task
The task this sheet is about:
What makes it demanding
Tick what applies today.
Ways to make it smaller
Tick any that could work, then choose one to try.
The smaller version I'll try:
Before, during, after
Only where relevant. The task does not have to be completed — stopping part-way counts.
My realistic choice
Stopping part-way is a design choice, not a failure.