Bedside & Support Sheets · Interactive Sheet
Supporter / Carer Quick Guide
One page for whoever helps: the do's, the avoid's, and the principle underneath — reduce unnecessary demand while keeping dignity and the decisions where they belong.
What this is for: A concise guide to helping well, handed over once.
Please
Avoid
The house version
You can leave this blank.
What you've put together
Your choices stay on this page — nothing is saved or sent.
The quick guide, ready to hand over: the please list, the avoid list, and your specifics.
Nothing chosen yet — that's fine. Use only what helps today.
What matters most is support that reduces unnecessary demand while preserving dignity and autonomy.
A clean, keep-close version — read it here, or screenshot the page to have it on your phone.
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